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| how many people did you love before me? [2014-6-2] [ from 本站原创 ] |   |
I love you
"我爱你."
Hey，how many were there before me ?
"但是在我之前有多少个?"
You mean?
"什么意思?"
Like, how many girls did you love before me?
"就像 你在我之前还爱过多少人.”
Love ?
Five...I love five women before you
"恩..五个.”
What were their names?
"她们是 'who' 'what' 'when' 'where' 'why'."
Can you tell me about them?
"能跟我讲讲她们吗?"
"Who" I loved was a girl from college. I wasn’t exactly close to her, but with some superficial facts, a few of interaction over semester,you know like most guys fantasizing over a girl they barely know, I filled in the blanks like a fairytale author. And “who”, she becomes into my head like probably more than the reality. She was a third-year sorority girl, I was infatuated freshmen, but several times we got to spend together outside of class, it really allow me to see she had a good heard and a bright spirit, the only problem was, so did just about any other guy, while she turned me down nicely, I swear, there were times when it seemed like a cliché sorority girl may have felt something for the typical awkward freshman.
"who是一个女大学生 我并没有和她非常亲近 但因为一些肤浅的原因和一个学期下来的一些接触 跟大多数男生对待陌生女孩一样 我用幻想编织了我一个个童话 who更多出存在于我的想像中 who是女子联谊会的大三学生 而我是一个花痴的大学新生 但几次的课外接触 让我发现她是一个有一颗善良的心和乐天的性格 唯一的问题是其他男生跟我有一样的感觉 当她友善的拒绝我我发誓她是一个典型的联谊会女学生 而对我这种笨拙难堪的新生是有过那么一点感觉的."
"What" I loved was an old friend, but she was much more than just a friend. We met early in college and kept in touch with the years after, we saw each other grow and change and through multiple relationships. I saw different boyfriends come and go, she was also there for every girlfriend and break up of mine. Personality, humor, taste, it was all there, her and I was almost perfect, only known wasn’t perfect was our timing, we were never single at the same time. What we love about each other was never enough to leave who you were with, this is something we eventually have to face and accept, we have to leave behind what we had.
"what 是我一个老朋友 而不仅仅是一个普通朋友 我们刚进大学就认识了 并一直保持着联系 我们见识了对方的成长改变以及每段恋爱经历 我看着她的男朋友换了又换她也看着我结束每一段恋情 她个性幽默感和品位和我都很相似 我们简直就是天作之合 而唯一不合适的是时间 我们从来没有在对方单身的时候单身过 也没有足够的爱让对方离开自己的恋人 这是我们最终都要去面对和接受的."
"When" I loved was my first girlfriend in high school, it’s a bit unfair because she embodies a combination of both love and youth. Feeling of young love is unique and impossible to replace or replicate, because you can only be that age once. High school was a time of innocence, discovery and adventure, we shared three elements together in thing like, our first kiss, late night sneaking out and matinee movies, all of which now had become a nostalgic love, preserved in a time neither of us can touch but know is there, even though we were just kids. There is not a doubt in my mind that we were there. We were in love.
"when 是我高中第一个女朋友 说起来有点对其他女生不公平 因为她是爱情和青春的结合体 年轻的爱恋是独特的 无法代替和复制的 因为每个人只能经历那个年龄一次 高中时代我们充满好奇幻想和冒险精神 我们共同拥有这三个特点 不管初吻 深夜约会还是午夜电影 所有的一切都令人难以忘怀 封存在我们的遥不可及回忆里 我们都知道它的确存在 哪怕我只是小孩子我还是确定我们的确是相爱的 的确坠入爱河了."
"Where" I loved was a girl I met in Los Angeles, I never intended to stay there that long, it was just six-mouth internship after graduating, but all changed when I met her. Soon a year had passed then somehow another year after that I couldn’t leave the city, couldn’t leave her. Maybe it was my desire to be on my own, or prove something to everyone back at home, but she helped my accomplished over there. With the relationship reflected of the city we were in, a new energy and new exp that really push me to mature, more than anyone, or anywhere else. When people ask what city I love most, I say L.A.—the city where I love the most.
"where 是我在洛杉矶认识的一个女孩 我从没有计划在那里长时间逗留 那只是一个六个月的毕业实习期 但遇见她我的一切都改变了 时间一年过去了然后又是一年 我离不开这座城市了 离不开她了 也许独立生活是我的意愿 或是向家人想证明些什么 这座城市是我与她在一起相爱的地方 陪伴我一路走来的 新的经历和新的力量 比任何人任何地方都还促使我走向成熟 如果别人问我最爱哪座城市我会说 'L.A' 这是我最爱的城市."
"Why" I loved was a close friend of mine who passed away. She told me after she was diagnosed that. Death was not what sadness her the most, but the fact that she never really felt like she had fallen in love. She wouldn’t get to have those emotions, good and bad, of being hurt and of being held. After she passed, those words stuck with me the most. Teaching me to see that the greatest gifts we have of being alive is the ability to give, receive and even lose love. There are so many like her, whose lives end before have any of those experience. What a waste if we don’t strive to love in our lives. She made me understand why waste this life, not loving.
"why 是我一个已经离世的密友 在她查出病况后告诉我 让她伤心的不是死亡 而是她从来没有坠入过爱河这件事情 她也不会再拥有了 就算是好的坏的 痛心的窝心的 她离开后这些话一直萦绕在我耳边 让我明白活着的最好礼物之一 就是拥有接受施予甚至失去爱的资格 像她这样没有拥有过感情经历而离开这个世界的人太多 而我们活着没有努力去爱是多么遗憾的一件事 为什么浪费生命而不去爱.
“I understand now”
我明白了.
“You are the sixth“
你是第六个."
“So which one of them am I then?”
"那我像她们其中的哪一个?"
“You are none of them, because you are all of them” “You are who I love, the girl on the pedestal, the fantasy, the make-believe things that are actually true. You are what I love, the depth, the inside jokes, the best friend. You are when I love, a new history is being started with you, and we are young lovers our order selves will someday reminisce about. You are where I love, because I go anywhere just to be with you. You are why I love, because before you I didn’t truly understand what I was looking for, now that we found each other, you give my past, the future, meaning. You are the sixth, you are the last.”
"你不是她们中的某一个 而是她们全部."
"那个我爱的who 我憧憬幻想的对象却又真实的存在 那个我爱的what 是彼此深入了解的知己最好的朋友 那个我爱的when 跟你在一起有新的开始和一切 我们是终有一天年老而追忆现在记忆的年轻恋人 你是我爱的那个where 天涯海角我追随你到底 你是我爱的那个why 因为再遇见你之前我毫无追求 如今我们找到了彼此 你把我和你的过去与未来赋予了意义 你是第六个 也是最后一个."
"那在我之前你爱过几个人呢?"
"who what when where why"
视频：THE LAST 你爱过几个人
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